If your sexual relations have become a little routine these days, maybe it’s time to revisit your partner’s body with a little more sensuality. Because it is a fact: in terms of sexuality, we often tend to “limit” ourselves and to focus on so -called “primary” areas (thereby understand, the intimate area, the buttocks, the chest, the mouth and … basta). A hierarchy of erogenous areas that bothers Céline Vendé a little bit, sexologist, sexotherapist and Espacelaisir expert, consulted by True Medical. “”Parce the whole body is potentially an erogenous zone “ she says. So where are these famous areas to rediscover for maximum pleasure?
2 square meters of erogenous potential … in everyone
If you lack thrills, the first good news is the following: your skin, wherever it is, can bring you pleasure.
“From the moment we have an epidermis, we have sensory sensors, and potentially pleasant sensations” supports Céline Vendé.
Knowing that a person is on average covered with 2m² of epidermis, this means that everyone has 2m² of erogenous zones, and potential sensitive areas. “”In reality, except skin or disabling pathology of course, skin is a sexual somato-sensory organ alone “ continues the sexologist. And a limit playground.
However, it depends on three parameters (you are not going to take off at each handshake):
- The intention of touch.
- The quality of touch.
- And emotional connection.
“But there is also the erotic dimension, that is to say the perception and projection of this area, which is eroticized or not for the person who touches, or the person who is affected.” When these conditions are met, some areas can against all odds make you a lot of effect. To test.
The nape and the base of the hair
Among the most “logical” of the areas, the nape is commonly erotic, because it belongs to the romantic sphere. “We kiss on the neck, there is something a little of the order of delicacy, of sensitivity. And then someone who deploys his neck like that to get kicked gets a little vulnerable”. According to the sexologist, the nape has been also eroticized for a long time, in certain paintings for example. But it belongs more to the intimate rapprochement, and remains the place of a fairly strong connection.
The wrists
The wrists are also sensitive areas to stroke, even pressing, for a little more pleasure. “We also see it in everyday life, some people will mechanically touch the wrists and forearms to calm down, regulate their nervous system. They are often people who will develop a more increased sensoriality in these areas” raises the expert. The erogenous, even erotic side, manifests itself quickly, already by a kiss in the hollow of the wrist. “It is also a place where you can keep attached for example with a silk scarf. The fact that there is a light but present restraint, brings this sensory notion which can be interesting.”
The palm of the hands and the soles of the feet
Hands, of course, represent touch and sensitivity. But the feet also have a very erotic side, recalls our expert. “It is often left or double. Some people love this area when others hate. However, plantar reflexology is well known to have sensory interest and … fun” effects “ Add Céline Vendé. But it is true, the soles of the feet can also make fear some tickles … “This is where the notions of intention and quality of touch are coming back. Some will be sensitive here in a touch, but others will prefer slight pressures which will not have the same rendering at all and which can be more interesting. You really have to listen to what the skin says.”
The armpits
Less obvious, the armpit zone can however bring its share of unknown sensations. “There are people who are not going to erotize this part of their body at all, (because they sweat, there are odors etc). But there are others who will find it extremely erotic. This remains an area which gives off heat and humidity and who as such will be rich in nervous endings” reveals the sexologist.
The ears
The ears can also be very sensitive, not only to the touch, but also, to sounds and whispers. “Blowing, whispering, kissing can cause sensations that can give goosebumps”. But then everything is matter of feeling, some love others are annoyed. To try.
The hollow of the kidneys
The hollow of the kidneys is also an interesting area to give yourself fun. “We are between the back and the buttocks, towards the pelvis, where there are often muscle tensions. Come caress, and not necessarily massage, this part of the body, can help bring a muscle relaxation” advises Céline Vendé. Without forgetting the birth of the buttocks which can quickly tip you over on the torrid side of the preliminaries.
The interior of the thighs
Finally, the interior of the thighs is also an area on which to linger. “To create a delicious tension, it’s perfect. We are close to the genitals, but it remains non-Genital, that we will approach fingers, tongue, or lips, without reaching the pleasure immediately.” A way of cultivating desire, especially since the skin, here thinner and delicate, is rich in interesting sensory sensors.