According to several recent studies, more than one in two couples plan to give an erotic gift this Christmas. A statistic which confirms what many already feel: it will be warm under the tree, despite the cold which returns this week.
Intimate gifts… but very gently
But contrary to clichés, the French do not rely heavily on provocative accessories (which can create a moment of embarrassment when opening gifts). A large survey carried out by JOYclub among 5,000 members reveals a clear trend: romance and intimacy come before objects.
The favorite erotic gift for Christmas 2025 is none other than the romantic weekend (23.7%), followed by the sensual massage offered by his or her partner (10.8%). Far behind come sex toys (4%), handcuffs or whips (2.8%) and intimate jewelry (1.6%).
Cocooning eroticism
When couples are asked about their ideal holiday fantasy, the verdict is clear. The dream erotic adventure for Christmas remains, by far, sensual cuddles in front of the fireplace (35.7%), far ahead of more extravagant scenarios such as role-playing or unusual experiences during the winter holidays.
Christmas therefore rhymes with warmth, slowness and complicity, much more than with transgression. A trend that reflects a deep need for reconnection as a couple, in an often busy and stressful time.
Naughty, but discreet gifts
On the object side, gifts such as aphrodisiac candles, erotic literature, massage oils, elegant lingerie or objects with a subtle message are unanimous. The French dare, but with finesse. A cup with a suggestive message, a massage bar to melt on the skin or an erotic book chosen with humor become knowing winks rather than provocations.
An OpinionWay survey shows those under 35 are the most daring (57%), particularly those aged 18–24. Ile-de-France residents come first in terms of geography, followed by the South-East and the North-East, while urban residents are more daring than rural residents. Men and women participate almost equally in this trend.
Sexy Christmas, but above all sincere
For Eva Joy, community manager at JOYclub, the message is clear:
“Sexy Christmas does not mean extravagant Christmas. A perfumed oil, a voucher for a romantic hotel… These little touches are real sensual declarations. They say: ‘I want to take time for us’. And that is the most beautiful gift of all.”
In 2025, under the tree, eroticism becomes tender, complicit and assumed. A way for couples to remember that, even in the middle of winter, warmth is cultivated together.