How long have not kissed your partner? No, we are not talking about small kiss between two doors here to wish each other a good day, or that of good night. But with a real kiss, shared, sensual and responsible for intention. If the answer has been “for too long” or “I don’t remember”, here is what you should know.
What if all started again by a kiss?
For Mariah Freya, certified coach and co -founder of Beducated, the kiss is “the most underestimated act in the dynamics of a couple “. We dwell on the frequency of sexual intercourse, on the quality of communication or the weight of everyday life … But who still talks about the art of kissing? “”Now, it’s often The first gesture to disappear when love runs out of steam. “
And yet, the evidence is there: the frequency of kisses would be a better indicator of relational satisfaction than that of sexual intercourse. The kiss is a revealer. A mirror of the presence of one to the other. And when it becomes automatic, shipped as a formality … It is often the symptom of a distance that sets up.
A little gesture with great power
“A well -lived kiss is a reconnection in a few seconds” Also explains Camille Battalion, sexologist. In her office, she often starts with this question: “Do you still kiss? “. And above all: “How ?”. Because a mechanical kiss has nothing to do with a inhabited kiss. A real kiss is an experience in itself: a gift, a presence, a silent but powerful message.
Its effects? Multiple. Less tensions, more complicity, a natural rise in desire, emotional appeasement … The kiss becomes an anchor in the storm of everyday life. A bubble. A refuge.
What if that was the secret?
No need to be perfect. Nor to wait for the desire to come back by itself. Just stop, breathe, and find yourself … in a kiss. It is a simple, but revolutionary act. In an era when intimacy is negotiated between two meetings, when desire is drowned in stress and notifications, embracing becomes an act of romantic resistance.
A sincere kiss says much more than a long speech. He says: “I am here. With you. I see you. You count. “ It is a way of making the couple exist, despite everything concludes the expert. So kiss!