Putting your suitcase without stress, what our shrink reveals on our anxieties before going on vacation

Putting your suitcase without stress, what our shrink reveals on our anxieties before going on vacation
As the holidays approach, many French people prove stressed at the idea of ​​making their suitcase. A state of mind, which speaks volumes about their anxieties, believes Amélie Boukhobza, clinical psychologist.

At the time of the departure, 36 % of French people stress at the idea of ​​making their suitcase. This is at least the last figure revealed by Opodo, online travel agency. A real anxiety, which mainly affects the youngest and seniors. But why do you put such a pressure to make your suitcase? Our psychologist’s response.

62 % of French people prepare their suitcases a few days before departure

Is it really a surprise? 36 %of French people stressed at the idea of ​​doing their suitcase, behind the Portuguese (44 %) and ahead of the English (34 %).

Women are also much more anxious than men at the idea of ​​doing their suitcase: 40 % of them feel stress, against only 26 % of men.

An anxiety that affects two types of population: 18-24 year olds (43%) and seniors aged 65 and over (40%). But to avoid this stress, 28 % of 35-44 year olds are ready “to pay additional luggage fees“.

Other striking figures: 16 % of French people travel with “An almost empty suitcase“In order to buy everything on site, while 13 % of them”Put on several layers of clothing to save space “ in their luggage.

Finally, 62 % of them prepare their suitcases a few days before departure, when only 10 % are waiting for the last hours to do so. Help that says a lot about the French state of mind.

By doing his suitcase, we try “to predict the unpredictable”

You might think that preparing your suitcase is the next vacation promise. A good time … and yet, “For almost a third of French people, it is a real source of stress“, Prevents Amélie Boukhobza, clinical psychologist.

“There are indeed those who procrastinate until the last minute. Those who make a list, then a second. Those who weigh, go back, kidnap, add … Then start again. So why so much anxiety for a simple suitcase? Because what we put there is not just a jersey and a toothbrush. It is a projection, an attempt to control everything. We thus try to predict the unpredictable: weather, mood, unforeseen, needs “, underlines the practitioner.

And for the anxious, this simple reactive baggage finally all this: the fear of forgetting, of not being ready, of not “managing”. “”As if everything was based there, in this too full or too empty bag. “

“Building your suitcase implies making choices. It also means giving up, a little: some objects,” in case “, some security. For many, experience becomes uncomfortable. So we dramatize, we anticipate excess, we are on the way. And the suitcase turns into a miniature theater of all our interior tensions”, continues the expert.

But in real life? “”We only need an identity document, a credit card … and ours. With these few elements, we can go to the end of the world “, she concludes.