Pleasure to offer, joy to receive … Oral sex remains today a banal sexual practice in a couple. Except when it comes to irritating one of the partners (and interrupting the dance). This is the case if you are touched by “rigorous fellatio syndrome”. A fun term … except for those who undergo it.
“Mechanical” irritation of the palace
Vigorous blowjob syndrome, also called Purpura Vélo-Palatine, appears not in the person who receives fellatio, but in the one who practices it. Described for the first time in 1928 by Dr. Barthélémy, this syndrome is characterized by the appearance of small red or purplish spots on the palate after a little too … enthusiastic report. “This phenomenon, without gravity, is linked to a mechanical trauma or too vigorous oral suction, resulting in the rupture of small blood vessels” Indicates for us Dr Gérald Kierzek, medical director of True Medical.
Result: a micro-trauma linked to a repeated friction of the glans against the palate, sometimes associated with a strong depression created by the aspiration. In short, something that it is not easy to show his doctor. Fortunately, the lesion generally remains benign and does not result in any alteration of the general state. “”A medical consultation is only justified if the marks persist beyond a week, become painful or are accompanied by associated symptoms (fever, embarrassment, suspicion of infection or IST) “ underlines the emergency doctor. Without that, nothing prohibits the resumption of oral relationships, but a small temporary “oral” abstinence is sometimes recommended for oral comfort!
Name of a pipe! It’s time to review communication in the couple …
Beyond the “war wound” side (or love), can this “vigorous blowjob” syndrome also be the signal of too full of excitement, or a bad adjustment?
“Let us not forget that in the vast majority of cases, the sexual act is above all synonymous with pleasure and sharing. But an injury, as in the case of vigorous fellatio syndrome, can translate passionate sexuality, sometimes a little fiery” Paolo Furgiuele analysis, sexologist with True Medical.
If the person is injured during a report, the first reaction must be to immediately stop the act and take care of the person. Then it is essential to talk together about what happened. “”What matters is the level of communication between partners. Adjusting your gestures, but also communicating with the body and learning to express your emotions, prevent pleasure from turning into pain. ”
In a granted report, small hiccups can also have good. “”It is also an opportunity to strengthen erotic communication, knowing how to say what is pleasant or too intense, learning to adjust pace and practices. And that does not mean putting a stop to practice. Let us also remember that blowjob, like any sexual intercourse, is not practiced in a unique way. There are infinity of ways of living … “ assures the sexologist.
It’s up to you to find the good … everyone.