Do you want to become a tongue rockstar while avoiding cramps in the neck? Well played. Cunnilingus is an art. And like any good artist, you need the right tools … and the right positions. Because a good oral stimulation, it is a clever mixture of comfort, well thought out angles, fluid communication … and a lot of shared pleasure.
Here are the best positions to give it chills, while taking care of your body.
Lying on the back – the classic winner
Why is it’s great? She is lying down, relaxed, open legs … And you have the playground in front of her. This is ideal for targeting the clitoris with precision, varying the pressure, and adding some caresses with your fingers.
Comfort tip : Slide a pillow under your chest or under your head to avoid playing contortionists. Your neck will tell you thank you.
RESSE & CHEPS – The “5 -star restaurant” version
How does it work? She sits on a chair, the edge of the bed, or on a stable piece of furniture. You, on your knees or sitting between her legs, ready to taste it.
Pleasure advantages: it can take support, switch the pool, and you have easy access to the clitoris … like everything else.
Tip Comfort : Place a cushion under your knees if you’re on the ground. We want fun, not an osteo session.
She stands or crouching – the dominant posture
The extra thing? It controls intensity, rhythm, angle. You let yourself be guided. It is a super exciting position, full of erotic tension.
Namely : A good wall, a table or a stable support can help him keep his balance (and you, your neck).
On all fours – breathtaking view
For gourmets … with this position, you can explore the whole vulva, the anus, and the areas around, without twisting you too much. She can arise, moan, and even guide you with her pool.
Ergo-Sexy : Slide a cushion under his knees for more comfort. A soft towel works too.
On the side – slow sex, baby
Expected atmosphere, it is on the side, you too. Less physical effort, more sensuality. It is perfect for soft, slow, almost hypnotic cunnilingus.
The detail that kills : By adding a few caresses on her breasts or whispering in her ear, you transform this position in ultra-intimate moment.
Face to face with knees – intense connection
Romantic-erotic, she on her knees, open legs, you opposite … It can become very sensual, with real visual contact and hands that are looking for each other.
Comfort reminder : Always think of the cushions under your knees if you are on the ground.
Small tips to maximize the pleasure
- Communicate: ask her what she likes, how she feels, if you can change the intensity. It’s sexy and useful;
- Natural lubrication or bonus: saliva is often sufficient, but a water-based lubricant can add a very pleasant small slippery effect (especially if it is less lubricated naturally that day);
- Hygiene = Confidence: a little toilet blow before pleasure can help be relaxed, as for the risk of transmission of IST, it can be reduced using a dental dike, a square of flexible latex which serves as a barrier and prevents direct contact with the mucous membranes;
- Please note: never blow in the vagina. It’s not just weird, it’s potentially dangerous (a rare but serious risk of pneumoperitoneum, a gaseous embolism).
A successful cunnilingus, it’s not just technique, it’s listening, comfort, and a lot of desire. Experience, vary the positions, add the fingers, the breath, a look. And above all … Have fun!