Sometimes a word or a look is enough to wake up a fantasy. And that of the three -appearing plan at the top of the list. According to a global study conducted by Womanizer Out of more than 22,000 people across 11 countries, 24 % of respondents admit to thinking about it … regularly. Among men, it is even the number one fantasy. But between the idea and its realization, the path is often strewn with doubts, taboos or simply logistics. Fortunately, there are softer, more accomplices – and just as intimate – ways to explore this desire, without necessarily turning the balance of its couple.
When the third partner becomes … a toy
The idea of a three plan can be as stimulating as it is intimidating. The choice of third party, the fear of jealousy or judgment, the question of confidence … All this can slow down the act. Ana Lombardía, sexual health expert for Womanizer,, We-vibe And Arcwaveoffers another way: the introduction of a non -human “third -party element”, but just as effective.
“”Although the data speak for themselves, let us remember that all fantasies should not necessarily be made, and that we can simply take advantage of it in our mind. If we decide to do so, it is possible to introduce a third element into the relationship, an erotic toy, which will be used to increase stimulation, to try new things in bed and to widen the repertoire of sexual experiences as a couple“She explains.
Some sex toys are specially designed to simulate the experience of a trio, or to prepare for it. The Lovehoney Group, a specialist in the sector, offers a thought selection for curious couples. “”There are toys that can help you simulate it before putting the fantasy in practice or can be used to intensify the experience“Indicates an expert from the group.
Play three, but safely
If pleasure is at the heart of this approach, certain rules remain essential. Especially in terms of hygiene. “”For hygiene and health reasons“, Recalls the expert Lovehoney, each toy must be used individually, with care and respect. It is also necessary to wash it before and after each use.
The main thing, basically, is not to reproduce a fantasy seen in a series or a film to the letter, but to create an accomplice and sincere playground. Where the desire is freely expressed, without pressure or embarrassment.